One clear example of dangerous feeling therapy is rebirthing – driving patients way too deep way too soon. Reliving birth in the first weeks of therapy is defying evolution and leads to disaster. It is arriving at deep levels of consciousness prematurely, skipping evolutionary steps and going through the motions of feelings without feeling. It overwhelms the integrating capacity of the brain and there is flooding with far-out ideas and bizarre notions. We have seen pre- psychotics who come to us and slide immediately down to some kind of birth trauma, way off a proper evolutionary voyage. They are often deeply disturbed and start therapy with a severely damaged gating system. They usually need help in gating so we may recommend medication for a time to control the upsurge of brainstem imprints. The medication temporarily enhances gating so that a proper descent is now possible. Without that there is no integration and therefore no getting well. Even worse, when the doctor buys into the ideas and beliefs the patient is in danger. Suddenly, he “merged with the Almighty.” And in booga-booga land, the doctor may nod agreement. It is now a folie a deux. If the therapist is mystical he may not find all this so strange, because those into mysticism never think that their beliefs are odd.
The problem with rebirthing is that it defies the fundamental evolutionary law. Never challenge evolution; respect and follow it. It will unerringly take you where you need to go, and only when you need to go. I have seen the psychosis that this mistake engenders; and we see the inherent danger in rebirthing because feelings are directed by someone else, the therapist, on his timetable and they are reached prematurely violating history’s careful steps. Don’t fool with history. No one is smarter than that and no one has any idea what lies in the unconscious; only the patient knows. And it takes time for him to know. His body knows but he needs a higher brain to inform him. His body is screaming the message through its asthma and migraine and high blood pressure but it is a silent scream that only his system can feel. It says, “I hurt” and he says “I hurt” but he does not know from what. The decorticate message has gotten through but it lacks key information that cannot be imparted when we are too young and fragile to understand and accept it.
When the whole brain is forced into a state for which it is not ready, it galvanizes itself and moves up the evolutionary scale abruptly searching for a handle, some way to deal with the pressure. When the ineffable feeling reaches the top-level neocortex, it concocts ideas and beliefs that are basically psychotic – “at one with the cosmos.” And this is the precise mechanism in a true psychosis (rather than induced) where the gating system has been trashed by the continuous onslaught of compounded pain over the years until it collapses. Notice that the pressure of the feeling moves up the evolutionary scale searching for some way to turn off the pain. It is a biologic rule for all therapists to understand. Crazy ideas are not single entities; they are the result of a long evolutionary voyage that ultimately results in a belief. When a therapist meddles with an idea, she is interfering with this evolutionary process. And I include behavior in all this and the anti-evolutionary behavior therapy. How simplistic to strip behavior of its roots and then to keep on manipulating the effluvia.
Art,
ReplyDeleteI understand and appreciate that this and many other things regarding Primal Therapy and its do's and don't's have to be repeated again and again. One would think that after reading a few of your first books, things would be quite clear to most interested readers, as it is already in the '70s made obvious how Primal Therapy works.
But no, people want quick fixes, shortcuts, get rid of Pain by getting around it, make money by putting up a sign "Primal Therapy available here", and so on.
Then there's another aspect:
NEW READERS! Just like in any kind of education, there are new students every year. For someone who has followed your teachings since the '70s, it has felt now and then as unnecessary repetition, but of course it is not!
New generations must be given the opportunity to study, learn and understand what Primal Therapy is, and at the same time new findings must be made available to the public.
It seems that twelve books, among other public appearances, over 50 years, one every four years, is a great, but most of all, necessary work you have done. I read today with the same interest as 40 years ago, and looking forward more. Thank you.
Erik
Well Erik, Thanks again for your letter. And you are quite clear about all this. art
DeleteIf no emotional connections carefully are made to the cause about our anxiety or depression then we have nothing to lean on more than the anxiety itself is its reality. Then I am a victim of my emotional limitations and anxiety become my everyday!
ReplyDeleteThis I think is the major problem around emotions role.. it for the possibility of recovery. So... to get hold of the child's importance in us... in our everyday struggle against it... it is the most decisive factor for the opportunity to move forward in our therapy.
We are a child in so many of our behaviors so it is not difficult in that sentence... but to admit it is. This is what we struggle with throughout our lives if we do not take note of what the primal therapy tells of.
My point is that there are always risks that we get stuck in our anxiety for not listening to the child in us.
Frank