Monday, March 27, 2017

Why we Root for the Dodgers?

Why do we care so much when our team loses or wins? Why do we high-five each other when our man scores a touchdown? After all, it is he, not us. But wait. Not so. It is us too. There is something we have in the upper reaches of the brain called mirror neurons (in an area called pre-motor cortex). These are nerve cells in his brain that light up when the man scores a touchdown and also light up the same area in our brains when we watch it happening. We feel what he feels. If he wins, we win. It is neurological, which allows us to live through someone else, and also to empathize with others. It enables us to feel the same emotion when someone sings with feeling. It triggers all of the associated memories with that feeling, our loss, rejection, our finding warmth and/or losing it.


When we think about a song, we can have all of the related emotions all over again. It has been engraved in the brain and can be recalled at any time. The grand orchestrator seems to gather up all the disparate facets of memory, assembles them into a meaningful event and remembers it entirely. The memory is a network of brain circuits joining in an assembly of nerve cells to fill out previous experience. Thus any feeling in the present has the ability to trigger a whole host of memories and feelings that resonate with the present and glide along the same neuronal frequency. In this way a pain now, a rejection, can resonate with serious past rejection from our parents and thereby produce an anxiety attack. It gives weight to the present reaction, which may seem inordinate, but in reality is the bottom rung of a neuronal circuit.

It is in this way that we can summon up the memory of love, feel love and offer it to others. If we never had it, we cannot offer it to anyone, because the feeling is not there. Pain in the present, a humiliation, sets off an old memory; the gates rush in to block the resonating circuits to keep our reactions under control. The circuits involved are all part of the entire experience. We can block part of it from our past so we can function in the present.

My work involves getting below the gating, which keeps old memories at bay, to penetrate the antipodes of the unconscious and allow individuals to heal because they have felt all of the old pain that has gnawed away at them for decades. Suppose the circuits of the mirror neurons evolve early in our lives, even before birth, and are adversely affected by womb life. That may mean that the ability to empathize, to feel what others feel may be impaired. The person grows up without those abilities. The mother's body, which was the whole world to the fetus, has shaped a being with diminished capacity of mirror neurons - for now a supposition. Imagine that she was depressed and transmitted her pain through her hormones to the fetus who suffered. He could not feel what she felt because it was too painful. He withdraws. One way he may do that is through diminished mirror neurons. We will wait to see about this.



On the evolutionary scale, the feelings in music are much older than words, which came along millions of years later. It is why music can move us far more than words. It therefore has a greater impact; hence the singing commercials, which did not come into being until after World War II. 

The discovery of these neurons was made by an Italian team of scientists who used brain imaging techniques to find an entirely new class of neurons that become active when we are. Feeling what someone else is feeling is extraordinarily important for us to become humans who care for and about others. These nerve cells are found in the parietal lobe and allow us to imitate unconsciously the actions of our parent. So in some cases a male child will have an effeminate walk as his mirror neurons pick up clues from his mother. This is another way of saying that he identifies more with his mother than with his father. In essence, mirror neurons match actions and feelings of others with our own. It shows we are social animals, otherwise why these neurons? If we were social isolates we would not need mirror neurons.

So we can undergo what others undergo. We should high-five. We feel what they feel. It is a way we live through others; and it is a way we can block our own painful feelings through what others achieve in life. We therefore have a greater interest in baseball and football than what would be expected, because that is us out there.

7 comments:

  1. In our struggle of the ideal we are loosing our reality!

    As long as we are able to "run" from ourselves so will we not perceive our suffering and even less in other... so becomes our choice and advice for life totally insane.

    We can not fool reality for more than what our reality gone mad!

    The soul... if we have any... it would be our thought about it! Imagine what means. It could for many sound hard and cold... but then we should feel where ours need of love has its place!

    Frank

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  2. Home run
    Theres about a thousand intrepretations to those two words.

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  3. and all our yesterdays lighted fools the way to dusty death.
    ?

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  4. Art... I have no words for what your are writing here... but is what I feel... so I try! I was without mom and dad at the time.

    Nice is the expression of my experience then as need of love is out of my world!

    This has happened... it was the first time I experienced I needed my life to be "nice"... if so only in my hopes as five years old but still something that happened for what I wanted my life to be nice. It was my hope as five years old to escape the hopelessness of what was a hell... I could not possibly endure... I was lost in the fog of my self where my feelings are.

    Last night I listened to a song called "When The Children Cry" which made me remember... to experience the atmosphere I was in as five years old... it when I was in my hopes and wanted things to be nice. I experienced something I wanted then as five years old. I wanted something that not existed... something to be nice as I had to bury... it in my brain reels... it for everything that was a threat to what I wanted it to be nice. And so I developed a "symptom" they put on me... hyperactive. And thereby was my ability to concentrate on anything impossible to achieve. But now I know.

    Frank

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  5. So... we may need help at the most vulnerable time of our therapy... it to feel who we actually are! Find it never around someone who thinks he knows it!

    First... I can say that it is my mind that makes me paranoid... to not be conscious of what is happening. It is ignorance of what is going on and the amount of emotion that drowns my awareness that I can not possibly defend myself against... if so. How would I know when I do not even know it's to protect against the child I am... as I am and lives but do not believe. It is a vocabulary equation of a childs capacity for what is actually happening that is needed to come to my mind as a question to make it possible... possible if possible to "hear".

    We can never avoid the child's everyday in us... a life for what we can understand only as a child... it to proceed in ours struggle to achieve success in our therapy. The child in us is both terrified... scared and lack all that is necessary to understand what is happening why it is so extremely sensitive for how we move forward in our therapy.

    We must give it time to get used to the child in us... that is... but we do not understand!

    Frank

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  6. "can't fool reality" .....thank god there is something in us that is still real, knows the truth and is only too happy to tell it to us if we would only listen!
    We need only acknowledge and say to our feelings you are real, you matter , tell me about it...... a step away from insanity and toward reality takes but a tiny step toward feeling. Then all one has to do is keep walking.

    Thanks for the reminder Frank. Katherina

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    1. Hello Katherinanina!

      We do not suffer when we feel why!

      It does not hurt to feel... but it does when I'm not! "To be or not to be" that is the question of whether madness is about to take over my life or not!

      What do we know when knowing is against itself?

      Your Frank

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