More and more research is
helping us understand who we are. Although the thrust of current
psychologic thought maintains that genetics play a big part in our
development, I claim that the state of mind of a carrying mother is
very, very important.
If she is depressed or anxious the baby
and the developing child will have high stress hormone/cortisol levels.
Think of the implications. The mother’s emotional state may dictate
how our lives unfold. (See Early Human Development. April 2008. 84(4)
pages 249-256). This also helps explain why so many of our beginning
patients have consistently high cortisol levels (secreted by the adrenal
glands). In studies of anxious or depressed mothers (mood-based
changes) compared to “normal” mothers the offspring had high stress
hormone levels and more activity in the emotional right frontal brain.
Anxious and depressed mothers are important predictors how we will do in
school and later in life. Don’t forget the fetus has an environment;
that environment is the mother and her status. That environment sculpts
the fetal brain. The mother doesn’t have to say a word to her baby;
her physiology does it for her. That sculpture plays heavily on our
future behavior. It is a good predictor of the baby’s temperament. And
of course, who we are later, as well. We must remember that the stress
hormones of the mother can pass through the placenta into the fetus and
affect all kinds of hormone balances. And this mixture becomes the
crucible for later development and personality. It is here that we can
start life already handicapped. And how we react to birth may be
predetermined by womb-life.
We do know that womb-life maternal
anxiety can affect the sex hormone level of the offspring. It all
happens so early that when a homosexual says that it is genetic or a
natural state he/she isn’t aware of the impact of the mother’s state on
her fetus/baby’s development. It also explains why so many of us
believe that who and what we are is normal. The deviation has begun so
very early, before we had an operational thinking brain that the
deviation seems normal; we have nothing else to compare it to.
Moreover, when we look for causes of later Alzheimer’s disease or
Parkinson’s affliction we never would imagine that our life in the womb
could be a major contributing factor. So we don’t look there, hence
avoiding important information. We need to study brain dementia cases
and check their womb-life, when possible. Several European countries
already have that information. It dictates how we react later on. Do
we have a predisposition to threat; that is, are we too ready for attack
and therefore on a chronic high state of alert all of the time? All
this based on an “attack” by mother’s high levels of stress hormones
while she is carrying; that raised the cortisol level and made
hyper-vigilance a steady state. And when we need constant
tranquilizers as adults we cannot imagine that womb-life is the culprit.
But if we see through research that stress hormones are chronically
high in emotionally disturbed patients we see why they seek out
pain-killing drugs.
Another great write up, Art.
ReplyDeleteWhat effect does "work" (I mean a pregnant women going to a job, .....and especially working up to a week or two before delivery) have on the fetus,in a carrying mom?
IMO any work is harmful and the more the woman works, the worse it is.
The stress of "going" to work, the stress in the workplace, and the bigger and heavier the baby is, the harder it is for the mother to get around.
She is either riding the bus, or driving to work, getting in and out of the car, etc, etc.. This all has to have serious detrimental effects on the baby.
The slips, the falls, the bumps, the concerns, the worries, the lamentations, etc. etc.
Plus as you already to some extent write about, the emotional state of the mother.
Pregnant single moms is another huge subject. Imagine her thoughts and emotional condition about what to do, her thoughts about her welfare, and the welfare of the baby.
And the conflict, the fights and arguments that the pregnant woman goes through or experiences.
Not only in single cases, but this happens also in married situations, or where the woman has a partner who plans to maintain the relationship.
Please expand on those subjects.
Furthermore:
The way I see it, some of these applicable cause and affect/effect factors, and others, carries on and in to the baby after birth, and all through the development of the child until it is an adolescent and even beyond, for life.
A mother cannot be of two minds, one on her "job" serving the industrial and commercial machine, and the other on the "job" and duty of being a wife and a mother and a home maker. One or the other or both will suffer.
(I grew up on a farm with a stay at home mom. I remember instances, where when I came home from school, and if dad and mom were out to town shopping or doing something else, while us children were in school, but were back home, before we came home, I could very much sense they were out, without them saying anything. I was upset. I felt short changed. I felt abandoned. I felt neglected. I felt violated. The house had an empty feeling, ....a void was formed, .....a relatively tiny bit of neurosis was formed in me.)
And in the big picture, society suffers likewise. Especially when the majority of mothers are working mothers. And so many single parent families.
Should it be of any wonder what the cause of the "addictive personalities" is of all the youth and the drug culture is?
Especially with the heroin epidemic, and the latest, with fentanyl and other new drugs coming on the market?
Please expand on this.
David
OK,fairly comprehensive but Ĩ cant help thinking you underestimate a mothers capacity for non traumatising minor stresses. If this wasnt the case, all mothers would have to be treated like virtual invalids for 9 months. I know a mother who was on the 80/10/10 raw vegan diet for years pre,during and still now 12 years after giving birth and she was vey active throughout. Her daughter is incredibly undisturbed, intelligent and kind. Gary
DeleteA gene is coagulated emotion.
ReplyDeleteDavid
Actually genes are coagulated emotions and thoughts (information).
ReplyDeleteDavid
Hi All,
ReplyDeleteHolding back the years
Thinking of the fear I've had so long
When somebody hears
Listen to the fear that's gone
Strangled by the wishes of pater
Hoping for the arms of mater
Get to me the sooner or later
Holding back the years
Chance for me to escape from all I've known
Holding back the tears
Cause nothing here has grown
I've wasted all my tears
Wasted all those years
And nothing had the chance to be good
Nothing ever could yeah
Wasted all those years
And nothing had the chance to be good
Nothing ever could yeah
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
So tight
I've wasted all my tears
Wasted all of those years
And nothing had the chance to be good
Cause nothing ever could oh yeah
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
I'll keep holding on
Holding, holding, holding
That's all I have today
It's all I have to say
Simply Red.
(Paul G).