tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post5210667343823586763..comments2024-02-11T18:16:53.445-08:00Comments on Janov's Reflections on the Human Condition: The Simple Truth is Revolutionary: Stress Is Not a Short Term EventArthur Janovhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16709863014923629409noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-79582147052759231462014-12-08T02:29:33.948-08:002014-12-08T02:29:33.948-08:00Thanks Art. That means a lot to me.Thanks Art. That means a lot to me.planespotterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05315637682741508786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-65144643679437987482014-12-07T12:54:07.985-08:002014-12-07T12:54:07.985-08:00Planespotter: I hope so too. ArtPlanespotter: I hope so too. ArtArthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-81410037008894254772014-12-07T12:50:30.816-08:002014-12-07T12:50:30.816-08:00An email comment: I'd be willing to bet that c...An email comment: <em>I'd be willing to bet that criminal behavior can be traced back to such early damage as well. When we are damaged by constant stress it affects our ability to trust and love. Love is the seat of our virtues, trust is the way we make virtue our motivation. The more I feel the more I see the ways I didn't love, perhaps the greatest sense of loss there is.</em>Arthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-46480666726028159212014-12-03T02:03:33.355-08:002014-12-03T02:03:33.355-08:00Oh Boy do I relate to this. Stress causes mental i...Oh Boy do I relate to this. Stress causes mental illness. Do Bears crap in the woods?!<br /><br />Also the whole issue of allergies. I have never had any allergies luckily. However I did have a dreadful itching skin rash on my upper central back. It devloped when I started work and only went away when I went on holiday. I don't have it now. Why? Because I got in touch with what caused it. I was beaten with a big solid stick when I was about 3 so perhaps just on the edge of first line (probably second) and think that one of my vertebre was injured, muscles went into spasm and Scoliosis developed. The rash was my body telling me about a very stressful and even life threatening event early in my life which headed for the surface whenever I got stressed. Maybe to total fiction on my part and simply the deluded ramblings of a mad man or perhaps a terrifying story now seen and at least partially felt and understood. Why am I now sleeping so much better than I have done for years. I have had this feeling that at long last my Brain is starting to heal. Clarity is returning which is a joy, and I hope to God it continues.planespotterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05315637682741508786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-83560535980808504492014-11-30T04:13:17.768-08:002014-11-30T04:13:17.768-08:00Flemming, Thanks for the birthday wish. A bit lat...Flemming, Thanks for the birthday wish. A bit late but I accept! artArthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-87545638981860870502014-11-28T07:35:44.744-08:002014-11-28T07:35:44.744-08:00An another and maybe interconnected factor. Contin...An another and maybe interconnected factor. Continued stress will no doubt influence your quality of sleep (nature wisdom: you can't afford to be too relaxed if danger lurks close by).<br />According to Jeff Iliff (YouTube - Tedd Talks: "One more reason to get a good night's sleep") the brain goes trough a cleaning process during sleep (my guess is it happens during 1'st line sleep). <br />The brain don't have space for a lymphatic system, like the rest of the body, to get rid of its waste products. Instead it uses a clever system of shrinking the brain cells during sleep, so the fluid carrying the waste can pass to the blood vessels (if I have understood it correctly). Without enough good sleep the wast products can over time build up in the brain and cause many serious problems.<br /><br />(Btw: Think that I should be the only one remembering it (joke) - OK, OK maybe a little delayed: Happy birthday Art ! )<br /><br />Flemming D. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-23927233164578117492014-11-27T10:20:13.344-08:002014-11-27T10:20:13.344-08:00Hi Frank,
-"I have never dared to challenge m...Hi Frank,<br />-"I have never dared to challenge my needs for what love meant / means around my parents"-.<br /><br />Me neither. Until getting onto this blog. My religious belief system did not allow it. Strangely, my science education allowed me. . . but only when I discovered the process of repression and understood it (on this blog). For the 1st time. . . .<br /><br />Paul G.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02006514330039884557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-54750324252462275192014-11-27T02:10:50.279-08:002014-11-27T02:10:50.279-08:00I have never dared to challenge my needs for what ...I have never dared to challenge my needs for what love meant / means around my parents. To it... is the shock of punishment for my needs just too overwhelming ... alive today. I have been and are "committed" to not dare challenge my repressed feelings about needs! I choose what does not hurt as much... it with the consequences of my perverted tendencies decides what "love" may contain.<br />My "knowledge" about this gives me the opportunities I need to start daring... daring to challenge the horror of what love around my needs contain.<br />Being shy is just the beginning of hell pain brought with it ... pain where tears connects me to the events center... and I "flowing" into my memories of feelings for need where all suffering ceases.<br /><br />FrankFrankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242354226308728116noreply@blogger.com