tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post4402834048849933814..comments2024-02-11T18:16:53.445-08:00Comments on Janov's Reflections on the Human Condition: The Simple Truth is Revolutionary: Can I Find a Partner?Arthur Janovhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16709863014923629409noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-47224224592239811812014-07-28T04:48:15.462-07:002014-07-28T04:48:15.462-07:00Harmony: To all my bloggers. I will be ninety in ...Harmony: To all my bloggers. I will be ninety in a few weeks so those of you who think one day I will see janov and primal therapy, think again. Arthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-61311951343911689402014-07-22T05:49:56.471-07:002014-07-22T05:49:56.471-07:00I totally understand what you mean about giving ad...I totally understand what you mean about giving advices. I am reading about it here which is very helpful. I've also stopped super left brained CBT therapies. <br /><br />Really hope I'll be in LA one day taking primal therapy. I know it will help a lot. I believe in what you write Dr. Janov. <br /><br />Just one last question; what is your opinion about hypersomnia. I searched your blog & didn't find anything about it. I currently suffer from it & it's kind of messing up my sleep & life. For the least, I'm trying to know its causes. Any references?<br /><br />Thank you so much for replying.<br /><br />Wishing you the best Dr. Janov!Harmonynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-70165079399269977972014-07-21T05:51:35.379-07:002014-07-21T05:51:35.379-07:00Harmony: As you know I cannot give advice over the...Harmony: As you know I cannot give advice over the internet. Specially medical advice. I do know that our therapy enhances it plus many other hormones. If you have read my books and blogs I discuss CBT extensively so I am not a fan. What we do is unleash normalcy in hormones so that the body can find its proper level. good luck dr. janov please read my many blogs on oxytocin.Arthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-63080367261782041542014-07-20T11:22:27.575-07:002014-07-20T11:22:27.575-07:00Hello Dr. Janov,
I'd really like to thank you...Hello Dr. Janov,<br /><br />I'd really like to thank you for this lovely piece of work!<br /><br />I had a question in mind after reading this article, I'd like to hear your opinion on it;<br /><br />What can I do to increase my oxytocin levels Naturally? <br /><br />I have lacked love/respect/touch (except for abusive touch-ironically) from my parents as a child. When I told my (old, no longer) CBT therapist that I can't feel love, she was kind of like "I don't understand you" and she didn't know how to proceed. I told her I can't manage to feel peoples' love & touch. It's now a problem I have come to be aware of (thank you major depression!).<br /><br />How can I increase it? What can I do? It's like I'm afraid to go into relations because I just can't feel love & don't want to be attached to someone. I barely know what it's like. I'm afraid not to know how to love AND not to be able to feel love.<br /><br />Any advice on this Dr. Janov would be appreciated.<br /><br />And in anyways, I wish all best of health, peace, and love in your life.Harmonynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-28218757782306604712010-08-31T04:22:41.619-07:002010-08-31T04:22:41.619-07:00hello. i have read this week about studies on trau...hello. i have read this week about studies on traumatised people using ecstacy during therapy sessions. i m struck by similarities in oxytocin injections and giving ecstacy (which seems to flood the system with seretonin.) i did use ecstacy myself when i was at my most wounded and frozen and i have been reminded today that it was the first time i experienced complete compassion for myself and others and experienced connection with others. of course i also then developed a dependancy on it for the reasons mentioned in your blog. it did enable me to break down walls temporarily and some relationships may have improved, but in terms of how traumatised i was, it was a vacation from my distress , not a healing of it. i have been instead, working with my flashbacks, reliving, and being truly present to for the first time, the events that split me from myself . i experience this as the only way to organic healing. i am nourished by the science that we now have available that can support my knowing as a truth. thankssoulsurvivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07414576609711622707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-24425499753021716552009-07-28T03:06:08.218-07:002009-07-28T03:06:08.218-07:00Nenad. my wife, Dr. France says that more and mor...Nenad. my wife, Dr. France says that more and more she thinks we are largely programmed, and have very little free will. I am not sure but I do know that an awful lot of our behavior is programmed by our pain. art janovArthur Janovhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18009571728800026496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3420173096635836108.post-37081273885930524912009-07-27T10:09:16.509-07:002009-07-27T10:09:16.509-07:00Dr Janov,
Thanks for this post. I can say that th...Dr Janov,<br /><br />Thanks for this post. I can say that this post is a kind of some beliving that we are more then our good or bad or strong will. We can be guided by the will some times, some ways, but also by our phisiology. What will can do against the phisiology? Not too much and not enough, because it is part of phisiology, right. I think this is important to say because many of us belive in free and independent will. I think it is controled by phisiology, right? If not totally, for sure in some ways. For us, with difficult birth, and certain traumas in whole life, it is dificcult to find a propriete partner, to find: understanding, bonding, tolerating, calmness ... love<br />Can I find a partner? Maybe some angry, nervous, stupid, autodestructive person ( girl) who cannot live smoothly, and lightly. What about you people?<br /><br />Nenad from Serbia<br />industrial manager 25 yearsNenadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956452085815490924noreply@blogger.com